“Old Enough” (talker song) – Queen City Sounds and Art

In “Old Enough,” talker almost brazenly broaches the topic of personal boundaries and how those change across a lifetime. Friends you once spent so much time around when you were young with no seeming boundaries with time limits and shared subjects who in some ways help define who you are as a person. But then as you grow older you will often grow apart because maybe you develop in ways that push you apart and if one person continues to cling to how things were without the self-awareness to realize that things are different it can prove painful, recognizing that barrier where once there was intimacy. The song is so upbeat and exuberant in talker’s typical fashion with spirited vocals and emotionally-charged melodies it can be easy to miss how insightful it is about changing interpersonal dynamics that work best if both people recognize and accept growth and even some natural distance that develops when you can’t spend so much easy and free time with each other that conveys a sense of closeness that is, to a large extent, circumstantial. It’s special for a time and that connection can stay special but it also has to change. The songwriter speaks poignantly to that moment of realization and a willingness to grow even if it means it has to hurt a little bit, even if it means we can feel lost for a time before we come to recognize and value the new connections we form as a natural outcome of growing up and yes being old enough to know that having a slumber party every weekend in the summer or hanging out until all hours because you feel like you have all the time in the world in a certain part of your life isn’t part of your current life and knowing that’s okay and even desirable. Watch the video for “Old Enough” on YouTube and follow talker at the links below. Look out for talker’s debut album out later in 2024.