
The pulsing, distorted synth and shuffling beats of Izzy Ray’s “no more” set an evocative backdrop to the singer and songwriter’s layered vocals. Altogether it serves well the emotional complexity and mood of a song about coming to terms with one’s own perspective and how maybe we all set ourselves up for disappointment and struggle when people are not who we want and expect them to be. But we can all come to the point where we accept people for what and who they are the way we might want for ourselves and come to people with the kind of grace that isn’t cultivated in many cultures, certain in the USA. But that grace though earned through accepting limitations and the heartbreak that comes with it. Yet it is an essential part of growing up or at least dealing with people and life on their and on its own terms and letting go of the illusion of the kind of control their our cognitive framing can give us. The song though in some ways melancholy also contains a spirit of triumph over the limited point of view that doesn’t see the whole or at least as much of the picture of other people and the world in which we all operate and to come to a place of humility at the fact that we can’t fully understand everything and everyone and that it’s often better and more loving to let go of unrealistic certainties. The song honors the disappointment and anger, often justified, when people fail us and when we fail ourselves but also the emotional breakthrough and growth that comes in the wake of that downbeat of life. Listen to “no more” on Spotify and follow Izzy Raye at the links below.

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