Interview: Julia Wolf on Horror, Humor and Her Debut Album Good Thing We Stayed

Julia Wolf, image courtesy the artist

Alt-pop artist Julia Wolf dropped her debut full length album Good Thing We Stayed in January 2023 via BMG. Wolf grew up in the North Shore part of New Jersey as a shy and quiet young woman who was evidently observing the world around her with keen social and psychological insight because her body of work as a songwriter has a striking depth that brings to every song on at least the new album an unexpected resonance regardless of your background that invites repeated listens. Wolf headlined her own tour in the wake of the release of the album and is now supporting Quinn XCII on his national tour with a concert at Red Rocks on June 6, but with her own solo headlining show at Meow Wolf Convergence Station on June 5 with YaSi. We had a chance to ask Wolf some questions via email.

Tom Murphy: Good Thing We Stayed is your debut full length but it comes after some strong early releases including the Girls in Purgatory EP. Were there themes and subjects you felt more free to include in the songwriting for these new songs?

Julia Wolf: Yeah, I definitely felt more freedom to story tell the journey of where I started to where I am now through an entire album versus trying to squeeze it into a single here or there. It really runs through the highs and lows of working towards your dreams which is a way more discouraging road than people realize. This album highlights the good, the frustrating, the anxiety whilst all being written through the lense of someone on the shyer side.

TM: I read that horror films are a bit of an obsession of yours and might have been an influence (directly or indirectly) on the new album. How so? What is it about them that resonates with you creatively? What are some of your favorites older and newer?

JW: Since I was little I’ve always gravitated towards horror (we can thank my mama for that one)! And so it’s always been the genre to really capture my eye and allow for a full escape from reality verses a fiction or romance piece. Back in the day I was a real loner, didn’t have friends really, ate lunch alone that kind of thing. And horror was the only thing that helped distract me fully. When it comes to my visuals I do try and implement it as much as possible especially for songs like “Dracula” or “Hot Killer” where I bring references straight into the lyrics. Some of my favorites are Insidious, Skinamarink, The Rental, Barbarian, and of course any of the Scream movies (literally have a Ghostface tattoo)!!

TM: The album seems to follow something of a loose story arc. Was that something you planned or perhaps sequenced after writing the songs?

JW: I never went into the studio with the intention of creating an album. But after more and more sessions we would put certain songs to the side like “Rookie of the Year” that felt they were a part of a bigger story. Once I felt the story was complete the album was done!

TM: The lyrics on every song seem really open and vulnerable, sensitive, even in moments of expressing confidence. That seems to suit the often melancholic mood of the music. What about that way of writing do you think is compelling for you rather than the swagger of a lot of pop music?

JW: Thank you so much!! I guess I’ve come to understand many people write over music/beats that have already been made but I find it to be too restrictive. When there’s no music to go off of I have the freedom to write without structure or boundary and can also free form a melody that doesn’t have to fit what’s already been created ahead of time.

TM: One of the most striking things about your songs is how they’re so grounded in vivid experiences and personal and cultural references. Like the mentions of the North Shore and Blockbuster countdowns. But someone that makes an appearance here and there is your sister and it seems like she’s someone you look up to and don’t want to disappoint. Whether that’s a literal reference or not what makes her an important part of your songwriting?

JW: Cami has been my entire world since I was about 5 years old. We were always inseparable but it wasn’t until my older years even in high school when I was really struggling constantly alone at school, so uncomfortable in my own skin, that I would know without a shadow of a doubt, she could put a smile on my face everyday no matter what. She has helped me become the person I am today. I go to her for everything and vice versa. I love her and therefore she is in everything I do; I’m always thinking about her.

TM: The line in “Gothic Babe Tendencies” “I always choose the dark but what if I surrender to the sun?” is so poignant. What role do you feel like exploring ambivalence and mixed feelings plays in your music?

JW: It’s been a huge one because unfortunately most people are disappointing. I’ve had to realize time and time again that just because I would do something and put the extra effort in, doesn’t mean somebody else would. But through that I find myself learning to be independent, to not hold on when someone is showing true colors, and not fear being on my own. With that I can put it into the music and hope to show someone they don’t need to settle either.

TM: We’re in a precarious time politically and socially in the USA and really the world. Why did you think it was important to publicly associate yourself with an organization like WRRAP and its mission?

JW: Even though my platform is a tiny one, I think every voice, every comment, every share still counts and opens up someone’s eyes to what’s going on. I will always try to publicly associate myself with what I feel is right and fair and in turn make people understand where I stand and know that our community is a safe space for everyone.

TM: “Get Off My” truly transforms a specific and literal expression into the more accurate if metaphorical meaning with humor. Though there are heavy subjects and sad songs and heartbreaking moments on the album, what do you think humor helps to highlight or express more realistically in a song?

JM: I think it’s just instantly relatable. A phrase like that is one everybody says all the time as it applies to so many situations in one’s life. So when you hear it you don’t have to think twice to know that on some level here you can scream those lyrics out and feel a bit better about whatever’s bugging you!!

TM: All pop music is a stylistic hybrid these days and your songs have guitar, synth/keyboard and trap beats as well as maybe some more acoustic percussion here and there. Was that approach more a product of your bedroom production? What music helped you to realize you could do that on your own with confidence even as someone who grew up shy?

JW: I think my sound is a product of what influences me today and what I listened to growing up. When I was younger it was all the alternative bands or pop punk concerts you could imagine. It was emotional and made me feel tougher than I actually was, which is probably why I loved it as a shy person so much. As I got older I started really getting into rap and loving that genre sonically so much. So yes, those days in my bedroom were just me trying to bring those worlds together. But it wasn’t until I met my producer Jackson that it finally started coming to life. Now I find myself slowly drifting more and more back into that alternative world so I’m excited to share what’s coming up next!

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